If your girlfriend ever cheats on you and you find out, especially if it’s your first time experiencing this, no rush break up.

You’re about to throw away a golden opportunity into understanding the female nature like never before.

Instead of crying (lol), blocking her, or listening to some online therapist with ring light, here’s what you do.

Step 1: Reach out to your co-boyfriend

Slide into the other guy’s DMs or get his number.

Say something like:

“Chief, do you know who I am? Well... we’re both co-chairmen in the Ministry of Internal Affairs😎. Your babe is my babe too, but she doesn’t know we know, so I suggest we collaborate and enjoy this in real time. How you see am?”

If you do it right, he’ll join the show.

Step 2: The Mission Is complete Chaos!

Now both of you are in. congratulations, my guy. You are about to get a front row ticket to see female infidelity in it's purest form.

Your goal now is not revenge. It’s observation. Stress her while studying her deeply.

Start calling her, planning stay-overs, and locking in time together.

Then have the other boyfriend call her too, same day, overlapping time, with plans to take her out for dinner, to the club, or just for vibes.

Listen to how she lies.

Observe the creativity, the calm delivery, the “baby my cousin just gave birth in Ikeja and I have to rush there because her husband is in Indonesia.”

She’ll be teleporting between the two of you like an unresting spirit.

Step 3: The Grand Experiment

If you and your co-boyfriend are bold, as in... If una mind strong, book the same hotel. Have her lodge with you. Then tell boyfriend No 2 to call and say:

“My office is hosting a company retreat and I’m being logged at so-so hotel (the same one you're staying with her). I want to see you.”

Make him mount pressure smoh-smoh and watch her juggle both of you under one roof, in one weekend lol.

She’ll stay in your room on Friday night, then tell you she has to hurry out in the morning to take care of some things at the house. That’s when she’ll check in with boyfriend number two and stay with him until Saturday evening when she will get back to you 😁😁

Trust me, you'll have the time of your life.

You’ll hear lies that deserve an Oscar.

Step 4: The Graduation Ceremony

When you’ve both had the time of your lives for the months or years you decided to keep it going, invite her for dinner. Tell her you just want to spoil her. Let the other guy show up halfway through.

Then raise your glasses and give your vote of thanks one after the other. Please don't get physical on her or anything of that sort.

Na person pikin o.

Finish, pay up, jazz out ✌️

And text the new girlfriend you'll be getting married to.

Be calm, be proud. You’ve just completed a PhD in Relationship Psychology.

The kind of wisdom you’ll gain? No therapist, no podcast, no motivational speaker can teach it.

My problem is y'all rush to break up too quickly IF your girlfriend cheats.

It's not that deep.

Emmanuel Kings shared it.
IFIOQUE Wrote it.

Me:😁😁😁😁😁😁

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GRACE FOR SERVICE

Wherefore we receiving a kingdom which cannot be moved, let us have grace, whereby we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear (HEBREWS 12:28)

Those who find themselves serving in the court and palaces of great empires of old considered themselves highly privileged. But then, they soon realised how very delicate and precarious their positions were. A little offending act or misdeed could spell doom for them. They could either be jailed, banished for life or pay the ultimate price. Hence, they carried out their service with very well calculated steps and precision.

The privileges and grace for service in the New Testament dispensation are here contrasted with the experiences of the Old Testament believers, especially in the wilderness. There were strict rules and restrictions guiding their relationship with the Lord and service to Him. They could not afford to be careless or fail to follow due process as that may spell doom for them.

The New Testament era is a lot different because it is characterized by grace. This does not mean that there is a relaxation or lowering of God's standards and demands. But there is a divine enablement that helps the believer today to serve God more acceptably. The grace of God does not absolve the believer from the responsibility of living in the fear and reverence of God. It is not a licence for careless living. Rather, today's believers must do better than those of the Old Testament in their service to the Lord.

God is God and remains eternally unchanging. His stand against sin and spiritually casual living is still the same. He is still a consuming Fire. We should therefore ask for grace daily so that we may please Him always and that our service may be acceptable unto Him. God's grace must not be taken for granted.


Grace does not make us lawless
by: Pastor W.F. Kumuyi

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The Heritage of the Believer

No weapon formed against you shall prosper... (Isaiah 54:17, NKJV)

As a believer in Jesus, you have certain privileges because you belong to Christ. When you chose Him, God put a blood line around you that the enemy cannot cross. As long as you’re keeping Him first place, you have a hedge of protection, a hedge of favor, a hedge of mercy surrounding you like a shield. When difficulties come, God says that because you’re His child, because you honor Him, even though that problem has formed, in the end it is not going to prosper. When it’s all said and done, it’s not going to harm you. God is going to turn it around and use it to your advantage. That’s your heritage as a believer!

Notice it doesn’t say that we’ll never have problems. No, life is full of difficulties. The promise God is making to us is that when things do come against us, because you’re in covenant relationship with Him, you can stay in peace knowing that it is not going to prosper. God has already paved the way for you to live in victory in every area of your life!


Father, thank You for Your many promises. I choose today to accept Your truth which sets me free. I declare by faith that no weapon formed against me shall ever prosper in Jesus' name. Amen.
by: Pastor Joel Osteen

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Fake life is expensive, not just in terms of money, but also in terms of time, energy, and relationships.

Packaging works only when you have value to provide, because authenticity always prevails. Eventually, the facade crumbles, revealing the emptiness beneath.

True success lies in developing genuine value, not in crafting an illusion.

Ceah©
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Trust Him to Make a Way

Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God. (Psalm 20:7, NIV)

It’s easy to get discouraged when things don’t go your way. Maybe you aren’t getting out of debt as fast as you wanted. Or, you’re experiencing some challenges in your health or relationships. We have to be careful not to give up just because it hasn’t happened on our timetable. Remember, we serve a supernatural God. His ways are higher than our ways. When we believe, all things become possible!

The first step is to quit trying to figure everything out. There may not be a way in the natural, but that’s okay. God can do what men can’t do. Think about the children of Israel. When they left Egypt, there were two million of them. Then, Pharaoh came chasing after them, and when they came to a dead end at the Red Sea, it looked like it was over. They couldn’t see a way out, but that didn’t mean there wasn’t a way. God simply parted the Red Sea, and they went through on dry ground.

Remember, if it looks like there is no way in the natural, trust God to make a way. He’ll part the waters if He has to! He’ll do whatever it takes to lead and guide you in the path of victory that He has prepared for you!


Father, I trust that with You, all things are possible. I take my eyes off of my circumstances and put my trust and hope in You. I bless You and thank You for Your faithfulness in Jesus\ name. Amen.
by: Pastor Joel Osteen

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THE GOD FACTOR IN SUCCESS

I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: For without me you can do nothing. John 15:5

No branch survives without the vine. A branch that is cut off may maintain its greenness for a while but it is dead from the moment it is cut off.

God never said, “Without me you can do some things” but, “You can do nothing.”

Without Him we cannot succeed but with Him we can do all things (Philippians. 4:13).

If you want to know the helplessness of a branch cut it off from the vine. Likewise, if you want to know the nakedness of a man cut him off from God.

Only those who cleave to the Lord remain alive (Deuteronomy 4:4).

Accomplishment is only possible through permanent relationship with God.


Accomplishment is only possible through permanent relationship with God
by: Bishop David Abioye

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CAN GOD CHANGE HIS MIND? I

And the LORD repented of the evil which he thought to do unto his people. Exodus 32:14

Anyone who God is against is doomed already. However, I have good news for you: God can change His mind if the conditions are right for Him to do so. In today’s Bible reading, God was ready to destroy the Israelites and start a new generation, but Moses was successful in his appeal.

What was in Moses' plea that made God change His mind?. First, Moses was pleading from the mountain. He had a special relationship with God. He was closer to God than the rest; he was a favorite. If you have incurred God’s wrath through sin, you stand a better chance of obtaining mercy by getting someone like Moses with a higher level of anointing, to plead on your behalf.

Secondly, Moses was not selfish in his plea. He was always particular about God’s name and reputation.  When you put His interest first, He listens. Moses said: "Wherefore should the Egyptians speak, and say, For mischief did he bring them out, to slay them in the mountains, and to consume them from the face of the earth? Turn from thy fierce wrath, and repent of this evil against thy people. Exodus 32:12". 

Finally, Moses ensured the people repented and forsook their sins. God cannot be fooled. After forgiveness, you cannot continue doing what brought His wrath on you in the first place. Christian leaders, if any member of your flock is going astray, plead with God for such. If the fellow changes, you could discipline them before God does. God still punished the Israelites for transgressing despite not wiping them out.

This is why erring workers in the Church are sometimes suspended we don’t want God to mete out the punishment Himself. Man’s punishment cannot be as fearsome as God’s anger. It is true that the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23), but God does not want the death of a sinner (Ezekiel 18:23). If you confess your sins, repent and forsake them, God is faithful and just to forgive you and spare you His wrath. Indeed, He will not reject a broken and contrite heart (Psalms 51:17).


If you know you have incurred the wrath of God upon yourself, confess to a spiritual authority over you, who is closer to God, asking him/her to intercede on your behalf.
by: Pastor E.A. Adeboye

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"Don't bark if you can't bite" is a timeless piece of wisdom that emphasizes the importance of credibility and integrity. Whether in personal relationships, professional settings, or international diplomacy, aligning one's words with actions is crucial for maintaining trust and respect. By understanding and applying this principle, individuals and nations alike can navigate their interactions more effectively and build stronger, more reliable reputations.

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL 2024
DATE: WEDNESDAY OCTOBER 9TH 2024

TOPIC: THE MEANING OF LIFE

MEMORISE: “And Jesus said unto them, I am the bread of life: he that cometh to me shall never hunger; and he that believeth on me shall never thirst.” - (John 6:35)

READ: JOHN 10:9-10 (KJV)
9 I am the door: by me if any man enter in, he shall be saved, and shall go in and out, and find pasture.
10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

MESSAGE:
Many people have sought to find out the real meaning and essence of life. I have discovered that the only thing that gives life meaning is a relationship with Jesus Christ. Without Christ, life has no meaning. Without Christ, a man is like a boat, rocked back and forth by the waves of this world. He may pursue a variety of personal objectives, amass wealth, achieve success in one field or the other, or gain pleasure in one thing or another, but soon he will discover that they are all momentary and unsatisfying without Christ. No matter how rich you become, Ecclesiastes 5:10 says that money doesn’t satisfy. In Christ, you have everything you need for life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3).

In Ephesians 2:1, Apostle Paul referred to those without Christ as being ‘dead in trespasses and sins’. He said in verse 3 that they fulfil the desires of the flesh, and if anyone has lived long enough, he or she would have discovered that the desires of the flesh do not bring satisfaction. At the end of the day, what people need to gain the joy that they seek is to satisfy the burning desire to connect with their Maker, the Lord Jesus Christ. Until that is done, they will always feel empty. Cars, awards, titles, and all the money in this world can never fill that void in their hearts. Until they have a relationship with Christ, their lives will remain meaningless. This is why when people become born again, all of a sudden, they feel this inner peace that cannot be explained. What follows after is joy. Life now suddenly has a meaning.

Beloved, make Christ your top priority. Don’t trade Him for money or anything else because it will profit you nothing if you gain the whole world and lose your soul (Matthew 16:26). People who do not have Christ will not only live a life of depression and chaos on earth, but they will also suffer for eternity in hell. The worst thing about hell is not the unquenchable fire and undying worms that will torture its occupants (Mark 9:48); it is the eternal separation from God and the regret of choosing to continue in sin despite hearing several messages of God’s salvation. Save yourself from that torment by giving your life to Christ now if you haven’t done so, and ensure you live holy henceforth.

NOTE: If you are born again, you can make this message into a tract. Put the contact details of any RCCG parish at the back of the tract so that people who read it can have a minister of God to call for counselling and prayers. Use it to win souls to Christ.

KEY POINT:
A life without Christ is empty.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: MATTHEW 23-24

AUTHOR: PASTOR E A ADEBOYE

HYMNAL 10 - IN CHRIST ALONE

1 In Christ alone my hope is found
He is my Light, my Strength, my Song
This Cornerstone, this Solid Ground
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm
What heights of love, what depths of peace
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease
My Comforter, my All in All
Here in the love of Christ I stand

2 In Christ alone, Who took on flesh
Fullness of God in helpless Babe
This Gift of love and righteousness
Scorned by the ones He came to save
‘Til on that cross as Jesus died
The wrath of God was satisfied
For every sin on Him was laid
Here in the death of Christ I live

3 There in the ground His body lay
Light of the world by darkness slain
Then bursting forth in glorious day
Up from the grave He rose again
And as He stands in victory
Sin’s curse has lost its grip on me
For I am His and He is mine
Bought with the precious blood of Christ

4 No guilt in life, no fear in death
This is the power of Christ in me
From life’s first cry to final breath
Jesus commands my destiny
No power of hell, no scheme of man
Can ever pluck me from His hand
‘Til He returns or calls me home
Here in the power of Christ I’ll stand.

Are You In?

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. (2 Corinthians 5:17, NKJV)

The very moment we receive Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior, we instantly become a new creation! Your spirit is made alive in Him and the old passes away. His peace fills your heart. Of course, everything in your life doesn’t change instantly. Some things do, but God will do some things in your life over time as you grow in your relationship with Him. The key is to keep moving forward in your spiritual journey one step at a time. As you abide in Him by spending time with Him in prayer and worship, as you study His Word and connect with other believers in a Bible-based church, He will continue to transform you and renew you from the inside out!

Today, remember, God is at work in your life. You may not be where you want to be. You may have made some mistakes or had some setbacks. Know that in Him, you are the righteousness of God. In Him, you are new. In Him is everything you need. Stay on the road to victory by staying in Him!


Father, thank You for making me new. Thank You for ordering and directing my steps. I trust that You are at work in my life transforming me into Your image. Keep me close to You as I put You first in everything I do in Jesus' name. Amen
by: Pastor Joel Osteen

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