*📖📖OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL GUIDE*
*WEDNESDAY JUNE 19TH 2024*
*THEME: SPEND TIME WITH THEM III*
BY PASTOR E A ADEBOYE
MEMORISE:
Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. 1 Timothy 3:12
READ: 1 Timothy 3:1-5 NKJV
[1] This is a faithful saying: If a man desires the position of a bishop, he desires a good work.
[2] A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach;
[3] not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous;
[4] one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence
[5] (for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?);
MESSAGE:
Today, I will continue my teaching on the importance of spending time with children. Many ministers of God make the mistake of putting their ministries before their families – this is not how God wants it.
Today's Bible reading tells us that a man must first have his house in order before he takes up leadership in ministry. As far as God is concerned, your home must come first, then your ministry next. If your home is not in order, you have no business being in ministry.
If you are a minister, don't neglect your family because you are helping to build other families.
There are many ministers' children who have serious issues that need attention while their parents are helping other children settle theirs – this is wrong.
Do not ignore your children because you believe that you are already teaching them the word of God during family devotions and church services. Your children don't see you only as a minister, they also need you to listen to them every now and then as their parent. When you are with them, don't talk as a minister, talk as their parent, showing them love and care.
The reason many ministers' children become wayward is that they are living with a minister, not their parent. Make the work of ministry something they enjoy and not something they detest because it takes their parents away from them.
I realised that I needed to be with my children during festive seasons, and as such, even when we had church programmes at those times, I always ensured that they came along with me.
On our way to such programmes, I would share jokes and riddles with them so that they would have fun and be relaxed. Whenever we arrived at the venue of the programmes, wherever I sleep is where they would also sleep.
Even when things were quite tough and all I had to sleep on was a wooden bench, we would all sleep on it together. So, rather than see the programmes as things that took their father away from home during holidays, they became times of bonding and adventure for us.
When you are praying for great exploits in ministry, remember to pray for your family too. Put them first in the place of prayers. What you pray about shows what you prioritise.
KEY POINT
You must rule your home well first before taking up a leadership position in the ministry.
BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
Psalms 81-88
HYMN 27:
WHAT A FRIEND WE HAVE IN JESUS
1 What a friend we have in Jesus,
all our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry
everything to God in prayer!
O what peace we often forfeit,
O what needless pain we bear,
all because we do not carry
everything to God in prayer!
2. Have we trials and temptations?
Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged;
take it to the Lord in prayer!
Can we find a friend so faithful
who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness;
take it to the Lord in prayer!
3. Are we weak and heavy laden,
cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge --
take it to the Lord in prayer!
Do your friends despise, forsake you?
Take it to the Lord in prayer!
In his arms he'll take and shield you;
you will find a solace there.
*📖📖OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL GUIDE*
*WEDNESDAY JUNE 19TH 2024*
*THEME: SPEND TIME WITH THEM III*
BY PASTOR E A ADEBOYE
MEMORISE:
Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. 1 Timothy 3:12
READ: 1 Timothy 3:1-5 NKJV
[1] This is a faithful saying: If a man desires the position of a bishop, he desires a good work.
[2] A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach;
[3] not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous;
[4] one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence
[5] (for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?);
MESSAGE:
Today, I will continue my teaching on the importance of spending time with children. Many ministers of God make the mistake of putting their ministries before their families – this is not how God wants it.
Today's Bible reading tells us that a man must first have his house in order before he takes up leadership in ministry. As far as God is concerned, your home must come first, then your ministry next. If your home is not in order, you have no business being in ministry.
If you are a minister, don't neglect your family because you are helping to build other families.
There are many ministers' children who have serious issues that need attention while their parents are helping other children settle theirs – this is wrong.
Do not ignore your children because you believe that you are already teaching them the word of God during family devotions and church services. Your children don't see you only as a minister, they also need you to listen to them every now and then as their parent. When you are with them, don't talk as a minister, talk as their parent, showing them love and care.
The reason many ministers' children become wayward is that they are living with a minister, not their parent. Make the work of ministry something they enjoy and not something they detest because it takes their parents away from them.
I realised that I needed to be with my children during festive seasons, and as such, even when we had church programmes at those times, I always ensured that they came along with me.
On our way to such programmes, I would share jokes and riddles with them so that they would have fun and be relaxed. Whenever we arrived at the venue of the programmes, wherever I sleep is where they would also sleep.
Even when things were quite tough and all I had to sleep on was a wooden bench, we would all sleep on it together. So, rather than see the programmes as things that took their father away from home during holidays, they became times of bonding and adventure for us.
When you are praying for great exploits in ministry, remember to pray for your family too. Put them first in the place of prayers. What you pray about shows what you prioritise.
KEY POINT
You must rule your home well first before taking up a leadership position in the ministry.
BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
Psalms 81-88
HYMN 27:
WHAT A FRIEND WE HAVE IN JESUS
1 What a friend we have in Jesus,
all our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry
everything to God in prayer!
O what peace we often forfeit,
O what needless pain we bear,
all because we do not carry
everything to God in prayer!
2. Have we trials and temptations?
Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged;
take it to the Lord in prayer!
Can we find a friend so faithful
who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness;
take it to the Lord in prayer!
3. Are we weak and heavy laden,
cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge --
take it to the Lord in prayer!
Do your friends despise, forsake you?
Take it to the Lord in prayer!
In his arms he'll take and shield you;
you will find a solace there.
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